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Get Man To Commit To You

Get A Life

Men are very visual creatures. As much as you might rant and rave about backing off from your relationship if your man does not commit, he will not take you seriously unless he sees some action. Therefore, get a life of your own and show him that you can be independent without him, and that you have the ability to enjoy life on your own. When you show him by your actions that you do not need him in order to be fully happy, then he is more likely to commit to you.

Make decisions of your own and spend some time with your girl friends. If you man begins to feel that you are slowly drifting away from him, then he will begin to think of ways to get you to commit, so that you will remain with him.

Set Standards For Yourself

Some women feel that a man would want to marry them if they cater to every whim of his. While you do not need to hold out

End Up in Toxic Relationships

You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly.
Intimacy before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues. Physical involvement tends to cloud one’s mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.

It is not necessary to take a “test drive” in order to find out if a couple is physically compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don’t have to worry about it. Of all the studies done on divorce, incompatibility in the intimate arena is almost never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

You pick the wrong person because you do not have a deeper emotional connection with this person.
To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: “Do I respect and admire this person?” This does not mean, “Am I impressed by this person?” We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they

Deal With Jealousy

Jealousy needs to be expressed in relationship, but expressed in the right manner. And here are some of the reasons why I believe so:

1) It’s in our nature to be jealous, and it’s also in our nature to express our jealousy. Because keeping it inside, will typically lead to unresolved jealousy feelings, that would later on turn into deeper problems, constant fights, doubts and worries.

However by communicating our jealousy to our partner, we are able to clarify it, and thus let go of those tense feelings.

2) Expressed in a right way – jealousy means that you love your partner. You know what women say “If he’s jealous, it means he loves me”.

3) Not expressing your jealousy, means giving permission to your girlfriend to continue behaving the same way.

The Right Way To Express Your Jealousy
Healthy Jealousy

So, what I am telling you here is that it’s okay to be jealous, it’s okay to show it, but you have to do it in a healthy way.

By avoiding

You must know Dating is Important

1) People get the opportunity to learn about themselves, others, and relationships before commitment. This provides a safe context. One gets time to discover the opposite sex and skills on issues of relationship. This must be done around people who care about you. This may include your parents, friends, youth pastor, coach, and others.

2) Provides a context for working through issues. That which people value now may change overtime. What you value now may not be good for you in the future. So dating allows you to discover your long term values. You might not marry the person you first loved. Why? Some changes take place as you discover yourself.

3) Relationship skills are built

Some necessary skills are not learned in families. A lot of work and skills are required in intimate relationships. Communications, trust, listening, sacrifice and honesty issues arise during the dating period. You become aware of your immaturity. You get to learn about relationship and how one function in a relationship.

4) It heals and repairs

Some people pass through hurts when they are young. They may have missed an opportunity to be loved. You find that they never experienced love. During dating they start feeling loved and accepted. That

About Relationship Therapy

We maybe facing frustrations within our daily lives that we take out on our families and in particular our partner. This can then lead to arguments, arguments and bickering that turn into a daily occurrence and ultimately lead to unhappiness and frustration between us.

Often we can look to communicate more effectively and try to repair some of the damage, but despite our best efforts, we may need to rely on therapy or a professional to take a look at how we are within our relationship and give us a helping hand.

Interestingly once we take this decision to seek therapy or professional help, we can very quickly and easily start to repair the damage. Many couples on occasions do leave it too late before they seek help and the marriage can be beyond saving as the anger and frustration runs too deep.

Research carried out has shown that an average couple will remain unhappy for approximately six years before they seek outside help. Thats a long time to live with someone who you have devoted yourself too but just cannot now see eye to eye with.

Thankfully there are many ways you can

Women Looking for Couples

A classic is to ask for a picture of her with the newspaper showing today’s date. That is effective, though not too original. Some other ideas include holding something you like (like a stuffed animal or a dildo). If you had an interesting conversation about something related to her life, ask for a photo of her holding that particular object and making a funny face, showing her tongue or giving a kiss.

You can use some of these tricks to get a real photo and be playful with bisexual couples. It is a way to warm up the environment for the real thing.

Go beyond the looks and Chat

Bisexual women and bisexual couples engage in relationships not different from straight relationships. When you are looking for an encounter in a bisexual dating site, go beyond the looks and chat. You will find that there is a better chemistry coming from people you have something to talk about.

Even if you are just talking about sex, you can identify how experienced and how creative are the bisexual women you are trying to meet. It is no warranty that everything will work in real life,

Falling Staying in Love

If you enjoy each other’s company, you will make plans to spend more time together, during which you will hopefully come to know each other on a deeper level. You will learn about each other’s values, interests and leisure activities. More important, you will learn whether what you have to offer each other complements you both.

At some point, you will both come to a realization that you love each other or that you are not well suited. If you both reach the same conclusion one way or another you can proceed with your relationship or separate to go you own ways. One hurdle at this point is that both people seldom realize they are in love at the same time. One of you might have to wait a while to hear that your love is returned.

Many people think that is the end of the story and that they can continue on in their relationship without further effort. But it is not time to coast. Maintaining a relationship should not be a chore, but it does require ongoing attention. You are most likely aware of all the changes you make in your view of life

Settle Issues in Long Distance Marriage

Be Creative

In a long distance marriage, it is common for a wife to worry about the thought that her husband might be looking for other woman to fill-in her roles as a wife. If you feel this way, avoid rushing into conclusions just yet. Instead, ask your partner on how you could satisfy his needs despite of the distance between you, and be creative in looking for ways on how to fill-in these needs.

Talk About Future Plans

Despite the distance between you and your spouse, you should still be able to make plans about your family’s future. Do not forget to discuss about your future plans whenever you two would talk over the phone, and then ask your partner on how you could make these plans come true. This way, you and your spouse would have something to look forward to, which makes the marriage even more exciting.

Solve Your Problems Immediately

Do not allow the distance between you and your spouse to prevent you from resolving whatever issues you two have. If you are having marital problems, try to look for solutions in resolving the matter right away, instead of

Pick great Movie For First Date

1. Don’t watch a movie with a lot of excessive violence or adult themes. The last thing you want to do is make your date think that this is a representation of who you are. It’s never a good look, and regardless of the spin you try to put on it, it just comes off as bad taste.

2. On the other hand, avoid movies whose intended audience is one digit. If there is one thing that most people do not want to be privy to is a date in a state of arrested development. You’re both adults, and you want to be sure you choose a movie that at least acknowledges that maturity.

3. Be weary of romantic comedies. Many people consider these movies to be fool-proof, but be warned — unless you have a sense of the type of discourse and conversation you’d like to have with your date, you may be opening up the proverbial Pandora’s box of first-date poison.

4. If you plan on incorporating dinner at some point, why not try going to a dine-in theater that not only has a great movie-watching environment but also has gourmet food and

Tips To Be Happy Together

– A sense of respect for each other. Your better half should have the ability to offer you the same regard that is expected from you as well. This will typically involve the respect for your special individuality, including your ability to laugh at both yourself and others and thus your attitude towards humor.

Additionally this involves a feeling of respect for your rational decisions under all possible circumstances. It is also about approving your choices and fully understanding it. In basic terms therefore, shared regard in a partnership means that you value each other’s differences and also fully understand, yet not consciously attempt to alter each other’s individuality that identifies you as a special person.

– Honesty with each other. This ought to go together with openness, as trust is based on exactly how truthful your partner is to you. How can you rely on someone who cannot be straightforward with you? You’ll have doubts the next time he tells you where he’s going or who he’s going with, especially once you’ve caught your partner in a major lying scandal.

– A sincere trust for one another. Rely on a means of understanding that

Sweet Relationships Go Sour

Know What’s Yours and What’s Not – Because there are two or more people involved, and you’re only in control of one of them, you have to know what’s yours, and what’s not.

– What you’ve contributed to the issue,

– What your responsibility is to yourself and the other person,

– and what you need to do about that part.

The rest is theirs, and you have no control over that, but I guarantee you if you spend your energy fixing yourself, you’ll be miles ahead in your relationship potential. Often when you fix your thinking, and the problems fix themselves. So there’s your Work. Fix your own thinking, take responsibility for your part, be humble and vulnerable. Try to see it from all people’s perspectives, and allow others the freedom to have their own viewpoint. Their viewpoint is not right or wrong… It just is what it is. Let go of the need to control others, and do your own Work.

When in conversation about the conflict or issues, rather than defending yourself, (you don’t need to defend who you on the high road), listen to the other person(s) and let

Spice Up Your LDR


You might find this too mushy mushy, but no. It actually helps. Do a random 1-10 rating rapid fire round and find out what he/she likes most about what you like too. They might end up liking what you love too. But no, don’t expect your boyfriend to rate clothes and accessories. If you want to, give him an option of going negative on numbers.


THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE. Let the other person breathe. If they want to go out, let them. If they don’t want to text you for some time, let that be it. Don’t make a fuss out of small issues. Sometimes, even if it’s the hard truth, the fact is that we need ourselves more than we need our better halves. Sometimes your importance defines your relationship. What you need is probably more important that what the relationship needs at the moment.

One of the biggest problems that come up are boyfriends (even girlfriends sometimes) telling their better halves to not dress up the way they do. IT’S A BIG NO NO TO THAT. Dress up the way you want to. Dress up for yourself. Make

Keep Woman Faithful

We, men, are very possessive human beings. We are pride driven and very egoistic when it comes to the woman we love. And when she decides to lay in bed with a man, other than us, our pride and our ego gets seriously hurt.

In that case, there are only two choices we could make:

– Accept it, and get over it, and let the time heal the wound.

– Or end the relationship.

If you chose the first option you, you are very much in trouble, because, first of all you will look weak, and needy, thus she’ll respect you less and she’ll be tempted to do it again; secondly you’ll suffer because of it for a long time and it will hardly ever pass, and thirdly you’ll always live with that fear of being cheated again. It’s the worst option you can choose.

If you choose the second option, there’s a lot of pain involved too; you’ll have to end the relationship and suffer for a good while because of losing your beloved woman. But the good news is that it’s temporary, and even though it will take you a few

Eliminate Conflict With Partner

Being on the same page with our partner is the number one requirement in order to live that united life together. We could say: “thinking and caring about each other at all time is a serious responsibility.”

Being negative towards the opposite party can create as much as being positive and will affect both our life experience. Attract the beliefs and desires from each other will create harmony in any relationship.

So, is this just another moody day and who is the moody person here, both parties might ask themselves that question. Does life exist of working, criticizing, offending, down playing, I’m much better than you, yelping? NO! With capital letters.

Our success and failures are not caused by “the world out there” but by the love, care we carry inside our heart. This is not a brain surgery neither high technology and we don’t need to spend years of psychoanalysis to find the way to respect.

A negative mindset drains your energy and create a self-perpetuating cycle of disappointments, worry, fear to fail and fear to make a mistake. The other site of the coin is that positive thinking creates hope and self

Older Women Dating Younger Men

The Adventures Nature

Younger men want to know a lot of things before trying to settle down. With an adventurous mind, they have an open and natural manner, which is quite pleasing for women. The adventurous nature of younger men is contagious. Moreover, if you explore life with them, you will experience a lot of excitement.

Find Out Your Expectations

What you need to do is know your expectations before you start dating your man. If you want to have a casual relationship, you won’t need to meet him very often. You just need to spend quality time with him.

After years of a long relationship with your husband, now you need to have some fun without any knots of marriage. However, if you want a serious relationship, we suggest that you look for a man with the same expectations.

It’s important that you ask for what you need. Both of your should be on the same page in order to prevent heartbreak and frustration down the road. In your first few meetings, you may want to find out exactly what he wants as far as relationship goes. You can handle these matters

Sparing Time

We need to find time for the things that make us happy. Don’t even dare to allocate it to people who can’t give it to you in return. Do one thing at a time and while doing it put your whole soul into it. We have a limited time on this earth.We do no have to waste our time on someone or something who doesn’t have anything better to do but screw with our life.

Managing our time to do what we have to, can be challenging. We have to prioritize. We don’t need to waste our precious time doing things we don’t want to. Once we realize we have to give up almost everything to get what matters most then life becomes more manageable. For example, giving something up, and trying to make everything else work.

One of the most brilliant things to do is to think of tasks in terms of alone-time and multitasking. We are not good at doing things when we are not focused. But there’s a very little amount of time we have when we can focus, compared to a large amount of time when what we can give is only

Trust is Foundational For Relationship

I do know and understand how being in wrong relationships can jade a person and cause them to be guarded. I also understand that it takes time and work on our parts to do the work to heal our broken hearts so when love presents itself again we are wiser in our choices and willing and able to take the intelligent risk not only to love again but to trust that someone means us good. It takes discernment to see beyond what you see in a person and what they say. This is crucial when making the decision to trust. Never go against your gut instinct when it is telling you something is not right with someone. Take care with your heart. This is not about throwing caution to the wind. Trust creates a safe landing place for the heart. Let’s look at the definition one piece at a time:

o Confidence – The feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust.
o Reliance – Confident or trustful dependence
o Resting of the mind – Being relaxed in thought, not anxious
o Integrity – The quality of being honest and having strong

Fire Burning in Marriage

Keeping it fresh.

In order to avoid the boredom and monotony of everyday life, you should always try to come up with new and exciting ways to keep your relationship fresh. You can remember what was the burning fuel of your relationship when you were newly in love and start from there. For example if you are used to going to the same old restaurant, try a new one. You can also take a vacation somewhere and seek to try something new while you are there.

Taking Stock.

This simply means that the relationship you are in should have more positives than negatives. When you get into marriage, you go into it with expectations that it will meet some needs e.g. companionship. It’ s always good to sometimes take time to reflect and see if your relationship is being steered in the right direction. This will always help you in finding out if there is a problem somewhere if you are not getting what you intended to get from the marriage.

Seeking help.

Some issues often prove to be more difficult to solve than others. If you find that you are fighting over

Stay Connected in LDR

While you’re apart take the time and make the effort to communicate at least once a day, more often if you can. You can maintain an emotional connection with communication that is brief and frequent. They don’t have to be long, in-depth heart-to-heart conversations but can be short text messages about your day, asking advice or just telling your partner that you are thinking about them.

Let’s not be stalkish or smothering about it though. Calling or texting every hour, waking them up before the alarm clock or ordering pizza to be sent to their place for dinner at night is a bit much. Instead, aim for substantial and detailed communications about your thoughts, asking questions, asking advice or telling about what happened to you that day.

But, let’s face it. After a bit, text messages and phone calls can get tedious. So break the mold and make a video for your partner. Use your phone to tape yourself driving to work, while the phone is in the passenger seat aimed at you. Chat with the phone like your partner is sitting in the seat next to you.

Write a love letter. The art of

Mature Daters

Be Yourself

Without any doubt, you should make a great impression. However, you must not overdo it. As a matter of fact, you should not act or look like someone you are not. In other words, you should be yourself at all times. Your personality has its own charm. With time, the other person will develop a liking for you, which will go a long way.

Don’t be too personal

You have to be neutral when it comes to talking to each other. In other words, you should not ask too many personal questions. In the same way, you should not disclose too much of personal information when spending time together. What you need to do is talk about general stuff like current news, hobbies, political developments and celebrities, just to name a few. The purpose of your first date is to be frank with each other in order to develop a rapport.

Let the other person talk

You don’t have to do all the talking. While conversation is one of the best icebreakers, you don’t have to start a conversation all the time. In other words, you should also let the other